HomeI’m really impressed with those of you who have been obedient to my requests regarding this activity. Your eagerness to serve, both total strangers and someone you know, has been very touching.
For your last day, I would like you to follow the same instructions as Day Three with one exception. On Day Four you will spend thirty minutes doing one of these things specifically for me (rather than someone you know personally):
- Surf the internet reading or looking at whatever you wish for 30 minutes, all while teasing yourself. At the end of that time, you may release.
- Surf the internet for 30 minutes, looking for photos of men kneeling, male tushes, or males completing tasks for a lady. Send the links to these photos to me. (No photos of penises, please.)
- Spend thirty minutes thinking about and writing about simple things Ladies could do to men to demonstrate or reinforce their control. Send the list to me.
- Listen to Kidnapped by a Domme: The Climax. At the end of the MP3 (or during), you may release. (Omit listening to the Surrender MP3s if you select this option.)
If you make a choice that does not mention touching yourself or releasing, you may not touch or release at all on Day Four.
Leave a comment and tell me about your last day. Make certain you let me know which option you selected and why. Be honest with yourself about your “why”. I know you’ll be honest with me :)
~ Lady Julia
January 16th, 2010 at 6:30 pm
Lady Julia:
Thank you again for allowing me to participate.
I selected the third task and did so for a couple reasons, I think.
First, I thought that perhaps I might contribute a bit to your very thoughtful consideration and understanding of the relationship of two involved in some level of power exchange. Rendering, perhaps, a bit of service to the person making this experience and site possible seemed appropriate.
Second, selfishly, thinking and writing on these matters allows a bit of release in some way, although not in perhaps the way I might be inclined having finished the exercise.
Best regards to you and the group.
January 16th, 2010 at 7:11 pm
John, as with Ron, I’ve watched you through two experiences now. You are a thoughtful person who really seems to care about your relationship and also learning more about your submissive nature. I think that speaks well of you (and the others) that you don’t simply accept that you are submissive without endeavoring to find out what that truly means to you and your Lady. Your choice to do something for me even though you knew it meant a day of denial was very pleasing. Yes, I will enjoy the fruits of what you did, but not as much as I will enjoy that you chose to do it.
January 17th, 2010 at 2:07 am
Lady Julia-
I chose to do the second task because I thought it would be the best way for me to give something back to you. I felt that choosing a task that allowed me to touch myself would be more of a reward for myself than an act of servitude for you. I had a hard time keeping my hands away from myself. I think that because I knew I couldn’t touch I wanted it even more than usual. I could abstain for weeks without a problem normally but because I knew I couldn’t touch I couldn’t think of anything else. It felt great every time I stopped myself, knowing that I was obeying Lady Julia’s wishes. This has been a great experience for me.
Thank You for allowing me to take part in this wonderful exercise.
I hope I have preformed well.
Jason
January 17th, 2010 at 8:02 am
Good morning Lady Julia
I begin the final day. Yesterday I completed my task. My “Budding D” had mentioned a few weeks ago that she would like to have something in the walk in to hang her necklaces. With Christmas and being away, I had not done it yet. Yesterday I purchased the materials and made it and hung her necklaces on it. She will not be home until Thursday so that will be a surprise.
Unfortunately I will not be home until the day after she arrives so of course I will make an effort for her arrival – apartment spotless, the bed changed, food in the fridge, fresh fruit, flowers in the living room and a note and one flower on her bedside table.
Last night, Surrender 1 and 2 had me well under and I repeated it again this morning (I love Sundays) before I arose and knelt again in contemplation with my red cloth.
The task I have chosen is the second one because the thought of completing a task which might be useful for you and at the same time will tease and deny me is too delicious to resist :-) I laughed that you had to be explicit about “no penises” – you must get some amazing things!
Hope you have had good weekend.
January 17th, 2010 at 12:50 pm
Lady Julia,
The full attention of the Subs getting with bare presence of the Lady meant to perform real control.
Rituals with contents and rules put tightly have to be introduced forThe rituals shall lead to send everybody respect in his role.
The Sub then must not think but only act to adhere around these.
- the daily sporting activities around the body keep fitly.
- these morning meditation in an obsequious attitude
- services in the household (prepare breakfast, clean shoes …)
- etc.
Smaller or greater requirements made to the Sub spontaneously are good opportunities of control on the other side.
- Immediately get me a certain ice cream
- I light a cigarette
- Massage my cold feet so that they get warm
- Get two seats in my overcrowded favourite restaurant
- Get tickets for a musical sold out
- etc.
January 17th, 2010 at 3:14 pm
Ron, what a wonderful list! Thank you so much. I can tell you put some thought into your submission.
Smaller or greater requirements made to the Sub spontaneously are good opportunities of control on the other side.
I think you are correct. I like rituals and rules as they’re very powerful. The spontaneous things are exciting and fun so they add an extra spark :)
Thank you again for a lovely job.
January 17th, 2010 at 4:01 pm
Jay :) Nicely done! I am really hoping you will let me know how she responded. I would be so happy with that much effort, not to mention the fact that your efforts ooze romantic intent :)
I laughed that you had to be explicit about “no penises” – you must get some amazing things!
Quite the understatement :)
Thank you for sharing and for participating in this activity. I have had so much fun with all of you. You have all made me smile.
January 17th, 2010 at 8:55 pm
Lady Julia,
I have emailed the links I found today as instructed. I will listen to Surrender 1 and 2 tonight and this will be my last post for the activity.
Carrying out my task whilst obeying you instruction “…….you may not touch or release at all on Day Four” has made for an *intense* day to say the least. :~} as I have not released since a couple of days before the activity started. Sweet torturous denial !
I think I can hear your sexy laugh ~~~~
My comment about the “penis warning” was made before reading the latest post on your blog. I can see now it is not something to laugh about. Hard to understand the thinking of some people.
Sincerely thanking you for your mentoring and efforts :-)
January 17th, 2010 at 9:54 pm
Jay, thank you for the links :)
Speaking of sweet, torturous denial.. weren’t you starting the QofH experience tomorrow? ;) Perhaps you should wait at least a day…
My comment about the “penis warning” was made before reading the latest post on your blog. I can see now it is not something to laugh about. Hard to understand the thinking of some people.
Sure it is, sometimes :)
I just think it’s sad when some people forget they aren’t the only partner in a relationship. Fortunately everyone’s not like that, perhaps even most aren’t. You guys (and my guys) are always doing things that remind me there are plenty of caring, giving men in the world.
January 18th, 2010 at 9:36 pm
Again I arose and knelt with thoughts of the previous day, and how good it made me feel to have made a lady happy, actually 2 :)
I spent most of the day busy with 2 jobs, so i didn’t have much time to reflect during. I started looking for photos of men kneeling and service photos, but the only thing I found had things I don’t think would be appropriate for giving to Lady Julia, or things we have all seen many times. So, I decided to do option 1.
I spent a few minutes looking at some blogs I had not seen in awhile. I particularly excited reading and started seeing some interesting pictures, all the while teasing myself. I had the tv on and just so happened, 2.5 men was on, and it was a hypnosis episode. When I saw that I just let go. Hmm, wonder why? :)
January 22nd, 2010 at 12:42 am
Dear Lady Julia,
My timing sense is way off; this morning I did not even know what day of the week it was. So I follow your instructions sequentially instead of by calender days.
I started off by giving my wife a back rub early this morning. This evening, I listened to “Kidnapped by a Domme”. I chose this option because I had already listened to the first part, and I wanted to hear how it came out. I must say, it effected me rather less that the “Surrender” files did.
I did not chose the first option because “teasing” myself would be an exercise in futility; due to the treatments for prostrate cancer I am undergoing, I have no physical response of that sort at all.
I did not chose the second option because I have no interest in thatsort of material at all.
I did not chose the third option because I have only one thing to say on the subject: if you want to reinforce your man’s tendancy to try and serve and please you, ladies, let him know just how much you appreciate it.
Thanks, Lady Julia for letting me participate. I feel I learned something, and I have enjoyed interacting with you, and my wife loved the attention.
Freemann
January 22nd, 2010 at 10:09 am
I feel I learned something, and I have enjoyed interacting with you, and my wife loved the attention.
Freemann, I’m very glad. Thank you for participating. I enjoyed reading your comments.
January 25th, 2010 at 11:27 pm
Lady Julia,
As it happened I had to postpone Day Four until today. I’ve just finished listening to Kidnapped By A Domme, The Climax. I chose option because I felt the deep need to have my release controlled by your soothing voice and deliciously powerful mind. I wanted to have your voice guiding me through that wonderful scenario and into a frenzy of erotic sensation. I am definitely going to have to revisit both parts soon.
It was interesting to consider during the which of the four options I’d pick. The great thing about making such a decision was knowing that I couldn’t choose incorrectly: each choice was for you and no matter which I ended up doing, you were still controlling that activity. It was quite a warming realization on such a chilly, wet day.
That kind of control and the realization of how much I liked it is something I can definitely carry into my relationship. I had a lot of fun with this experience and it’s pointed the way for more and deeper service to my Lady.
Thank you,
cdbtoo
January 26th, 2010 at 4:01 pm
The great thing about making such a decision was knowing that I couldn’t choose incorrectly: each choice was for you and no matter which I ended up doing, you were still controlling that activity.
That kind of control and the realization of how much I liked it is something I can definitely carry into my relationship. I had a lot of fun with this experience and it’s pointed the way for more and deeper service to my Lady.
Good boy :)