I really appreciate the feedback from those of you participating in this experience as it allows me not only to understand you all a little better but to experience more of the situation as well. Yes, I enjoy knowing you are all out there being obedient, but it’s not the same thing as hearing about it.
I have been thinking about the end of this hypnotic tease and denial experience and I suddenly realized the end of the second 24 hours would probably occur when many of you were at work. Instead of listening to R*d Silk and releasing at the end of the second 24 hour period, I would like for you to wait until you are alone at home or somewhere that is more conducive to your task :)
You do seem to be enjoying yourselves. I like knowing you are feeling my control envelope you during this time and that it excites you. I am curious – have my directions been easy to follow or have you struggled a bit to be obedient? Was it just a little bit embarrassing to touch while you were in public restrooms? I hope it wasn’t too uncomfortable. I don’t enjoy humiliating anyone but if you squirmed a little bit in a pleasurable way I am happy :)
I also wonder, has listening to R*d Silk felt a bit different this time since you were doing it at my direction? Has your overall experience with my directions been what you thought it would be?
I’m looking forward to hearing more from you ;)
I realize some of you might feel a little timid about participating in my experience because of the posting requirements. While the blog template states you must leave a name and email address on this blog in order to participate, you may identify yourself as “Anonymous 1″ and fill in a fake email address such as someone@somewhere.com. You will need to use a different anonymous name from others who have posted, simply to assist me in identifying which comments go together.
If you feel too shy to say much, you may leave simple comments such as, “I am obeying”. I understand how difficult it is for some to display their thoughts in public.
To those of you who wrote to me privately asking about this experience, I’d like for you to at least do the above.
I didn’t realize how much I missed doing these experiences until I began this one. Yes, I know it is exciting for those of you who are participating, but I want you to know it is very exciting for me as well.
During the night I woke a couple of times and each time I found my thoughts drifting to those of you who are being such good obedient boys for me. I imagined how your day would be today, how that feeling of being teased and denied would fill your mind many times, and how difficult you would might find it to hide your growing excitement, and how much you would want to release when listening to R*d Silk.
Perhaps that’s a bit wicked of me, but I really enjoy the thought of you squirming a bit when trying to hide how excited you are. I don’t enjoy humiliating anyone, but I do adore the thoughts of any pleasurable embarrassment you might feel.
It’s also wonderful to think of you lying or sitting there under my hypnotic control, desiring so much to release after 24 hours of being teased and denied. Will you release without touching or will you find you will endure another day of tease and denial? Perhaps you find both … stimulating.
I know I do ;)
Over the years I’ve conducted several “experiences” with the members of my Yahoo Group and the members of The Circle of Dreams. Essentially they were periods of time where I allowed my submissive friends to get a small taste of control at the hands of a slightly bossy mentor hypnodomme (that would be me) ;) Since I’ve just begun this blog, I thought I might christen it by doing a short hypnotic tease and denial event.
Here’s how it works:
My goal in doing this is to allow those without a Mistress the opportunity to experience just a tiny bit of control and hopefully provide an opportunity for a little growth. I’m not suggesting it’s even remotely the same thing as being a submissive to a Mistress, but it’s still a bit of fun and excitement.
Keep in mind, I’m not interested in taking anyone as a submissive. That sounds blunt I know, but sometimes when I’m less blunt about that people forget and I didn’t want to risk any hurt feelings or risk any damage to existing relationships.
If you participate in this activity and you are in a relationship, IT MUST NOT negatively effect your relationship. If you find in any way that it does, STOP. If you think it might, DON’T START. If you have a Mistress, ASK PERMISSION FIRST.
To participate you must agree to my terms:
I will take control (just for the time of this event) of your hypnosis experiences. (Control of this starts NOW as you read this post). I say when and if you listen to MP3s and which ones you listen to. You may not trance with anyone via voice or text unless this individual is your Domme/Mistress.
I will also take control of any masturbation activity during this time. (Control of this starts NOW as you read this post). If you’re married or in a relationship and your partner initiates sex, by all means go with it and have a great time ;)
You will post a progress report in the comment section every day. At a minimum, your post will include the fact that you are obeying my instructions and also that I’m the coolest Domme in the world (wink – just teasing on that last part).
You will finish what you begin unless you ask for and receive permission to do otherwise.
Those are the basics for all my experiences. The following are the requirements for this particular event:
If you have any questions, wait to begin until I can answer them.
As always if you participate, you must remember that YOU are responsible for YOUR behavior. If you cannot comply with my restrictions or if you have any reason to believe it would be unwise for you to do so, you may not participate.
~ Lady Julia
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Effective July 2, 2009 this experience has ended. Those who have already begun will continue until their tasks have been completed. If you missed participating, don’t despair – I will be doing another experience soon :)
by Hypnoboth
Lady Julia has asked me to chime in about myths concerning hypnosis, which I am happy to do. I warn you, some of my myths and realities will be controversial.
Myth: Hypnosis is sleep.
Fact: Hypnosis is very different from sleep, and if you look at an EEG of the same person when that person is in trance and is asleep, the differences are clear.
Myth: Hypnosis is associated with “alpha” or “theta” waves; the slower the primary wave, the deeper the trance.
Fact: Hypnosis can occur with virtually any EEG profile. “Hyper-alert” trances occur in high beta states.
Myth: Hypnosis is something that a powerful person can inflict on a weaker one.
Fact: Hypnosis requires interaction between the hypnotist and the client. It is not inflicted, but entered into together. The best metaphor for a hypnotic trance is communication on multiple levels, many on a subconscious level.
Myth: Hypnosis can’t make you do anything that you would not normally do.
Fact: True as a technical statement, this is extremely misleading. The range of behavior that is “normal” for the unconscious mind is much broader than that of the conscious mind, and broader than most people suspect. However, this is not limited to hypnosis. A large majority of people will torture and kill a stranger upon a simple (insistent) request from someone in authority.
Myth: Hypnosis happens to weak minded people.
Fact: trance happens to everyone, every day. Hypnosis just lets you enter into trance when you wish to.
Myth: Hypnosis means losing control.
Fact: Trance is an everyday event. Hypnosis gives you *more* control, as it allows you enter and leave trance when you choose. You may experience the feeling of being controlled, but in fact your subconscious is in control.
I may post some more of these later. Questions and comments are welcome.
“Hypnosis is voo-doo.”
“Hypnosis is evil.”
“Hypnosis is a portal that will allow Satan to possess you.”
“Hypnosis is mind control.”
When I was in my teens I heard each of these statements and while even then I knew the first three were not true, I wasn’t so sure about the whole “mind control” thing. Everything I knew about hypnosis stemmed from movies and TV shows, especially cartoons. They all made hypnosis appear to be something that at a minimum could make someone look and act silly while at its worst could make one do something truly heinous.
A few years ago I found myself very intrigued with the subject so I began to actively study the information that was so easily available via the internet. I learned that most reputable sources seem to agree on some basic facts.
Hypnosis is often referred to as a trance-like state where subjects find:
Almost everyone can achieve a trance-like state. Consider those moments you’ve been so lost in a book or TV program that you were completely unaware of your surroundings, or perhaps those times when you have arrived at a destination only to wonder if you’ve obeyed all the traffic lights along the way. Perhaps you recall being so lost in a thought that you were startled when the person standing next to you spoke. These are all trance-like states. Moments like these are not at all uncommon. In fact, we slip into this type of state several times throughout the day.
It’s this trance-like state along with suggestions given for relaxation that typically make the subject appear to be sleeping when hypnotized even though he/she is actually very much awake. During hypnosis external stimuli fades away and the words and actions of the hypnotist become the focus.
Even though hypnosis is trance-like, it is not some sort of mystical powerful control over the individual. While there are many fantasies (and fears) surrounding hypnotic control in which the subject is “forced” to do things against their will, most experts agree this type of control doesn’t happen. During hypnosis the subject maintains the ability to accept or reject suggestions. That ability does not mean that control cannot be surrendered, nor does it mean that a subject’s subconscious mind cannot be conditioned and/or tricked.
(See this article and this one for more on hypnotic safety.)
While there is no clear scientific explanation as to how hypnosis works, we know that it does work. It is being used quite effectively in the realm of traditional medicine for:
If hypnosis is so powerful that it can control the body and mind with regard to pain, nausea, anxiety and more, how much fun can one have if it is used in an erotic or sensual nature?
(to be continued)
If it appears I am spreading out a bit on the web… sort of making myself at home in several different spaces… that’s exactly what I am doing ;) I’ve decided that I want to try separating the hypnodomme aspect of my blog from the general femdom related things. There are so many people who are only fans of one or the other that it seems to be a sensible thing.
Here you’ll soon find discussions on new MP3s, the basics (and more) of erotic hypnosis and hypnodomination. I hope you’ll participate and that you enjoy.
Hypnotic kiss on the cheek,
Lady Julia
** As always, I reserve the right to change my mind and move everything back to my main blog page. For the moment, this is a test run.
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