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Hypnosis Stage Shows – by Arafin

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“Does hypnosis work on its own or because the volunteer made his or her mind to do as suggested simply because they agreed to be hypnotized and should just behave as suggested?”

From the language employed in the question, (”volunteer”, “agreed”, “behave”), I’m going to go out on a limb and guess that a hypnosis stage show is being described here. Please forgive me if I am wrong. A stage hypnotist will ask for volunteers. Those that raise their hands are already agreeing to be hypnotized. The hypnotist then uses a variety of tests to select the most suggestible subjects and politely asks the others to sit down. Those few left on stage are thus agreeable to being hypnotized and hopefully very suggestible.

Subjects who naturally take things very literally usually make better subjects for a stage show than those who analyze a lot. This does not, however, mean that analytical people cannot be hypnotized. They just don’t seem to make the best stage show volunteers.

Now, every once in a while a volunteer winds up passing the hypnotist’s final selection test, yet they do not perform well. When told to cluck like a chicken they instead just mumble a bit and look nervous. What went wrong? Well, any number of things could have happened. They might have analyzed the suggestion to cluck and thought, “Gosh that’s silly! Why would I cluck like a chicken?” Or, they might have not been induced into hypnosis at all, or very little. Or, they might just really hate chickens. A good stage hypnotist will go with the flow and not miss a beat, perhaps trying a different suggestion for that person or maybe trying a deepener.

If someone on the stage clucks like a chicken, but is not at all hypnotized, the hypnotist, if any good at all, will recognize this and deal with it skillfully. Often the audience never catches on. If someone clucks but thinks to themselves, “Is this what it’s like to be hypnotized? Am I really under?”, then they are not experiencing anything that abnormal. Most trance subjects retain some portion of their capacity to analyze their own thought processes while under hypnosis. Only very, very deep trances include no analysis whatsoever. So the presence of analysis does not mean that the subject is faking, or simply agreeing to go along, or is not hypnotized.

Hypnosis does not work “on it’s own”. It works because two things take place. One, a hypnotist gives suggestions, and two, a subject *accepts* those suggestions with *less* analysis or resistance than they would otherwise use. The degree of lowered analysis usually corresponds directly to the depth of trance. However, when talking about how hypnosis appears to onlookers there is another thing to be considered, and that is that everyone and every trance is different and no two situations involving hypnosis will ever be exactly the same. What appears to be very deep trance might actually be fairly light, and vice versa. Experience as hypnotist and/or subject will make it easier to determine the real deal, but the odd anomaly will slip through now and again.

Arafin


December 28th, 2009  



More on Mind Control – From Arafin

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It seems that most people believe in mind control because they are either scared of it and repulsed, or scared of it and attracted. Some, of course, do not believe at all for whatever reasons. Me? I believe that one person can certainly control another, though as totally as depicted in films would be quite rare. There are those few who are very suggestible, and for one reason or another, lose much of their will to a skillful hypnotist. Sometimes this is all in good safe, sane, consensual fun and sometimes it is the horrific stuff of cruel predation. But, is this really the most frightening type of mind control that occurs? I hardly think so.

Most of us think that we are in control of our thoughts. We may glimpse the truth that we are not in control when we lose our tempers, fall in love, or become temporarily confused, but for the most part we live our lives fully believing in the illusion that we are in charge. Are you in control of your mind? If you are, then it will be easy to think of one solitary thing for ten minutes, won’t it? Go ahead. Pick anything. Anything at all. An apple, a lover, a mountain scene, the taste of chocolate, whatever. Focus on that and ONLY that for just ten minutes. Try with all your might or employ a more relaxed method. Go ahead. I’ll wait.

Could you do it? Bravo if you could.

Now, if you think because you could do that that you are in control of your own mind, next try to think of nothing at all for another ten minutes. If you can pull this off you are most extraordinary. Remember, no thoughts of any kind whatsoever. Nothing. Empty mind.

So, if you had thoughts you did not wish to have, who was in control of your mind? You already have the answer, by the way. It’s just not what you think. Literally.

The very reason that one person can control the mind of another is because the mind is so difficult to control, not because it is so easy.


December 22nd, 2009  



Question From A Reader

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“Does hypnosis work on its own or because the volunteer made his or her mind to do as suggested simply because they agreed to be hypnotized and should just behave as suggested?”

People are more focused, more responsive to suggestions, and less critical or disbelieving when hypnotized. Even though the suggestions they accept may be things they could do without benefit of hypnosis, they are not necessarily things they ordinarily would do. As an example, hypnosis is often used to help people quit smoking. Certainly this can be accomplished without hypnosis, but quite often people find it very difficult to do. Hypnosis helps.

It’s very common for people to fret over whether or not they were hypnotized. If someone is faking, they don’t question whether or not they are – they know they are pretending. Absent this awareness, if the suggestions are accepted and subject can see results, they were hypnotized.

(To the questioner:  I’m not sure if I answered your question as you meant it.  If you could, it would help if you offered  an example.  Perhaps you were at a stage show and you wondered about what you saw?  You may leave your updated response anonymously here.)


December 21st, 2009  



Free Thinking Writer’s Thoughts On Mind Control

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(Free Thinking Writer left this as a response to my previous post.  Since it was a quite detailed comment, I thought it warranted posting here.  Thank you FTW :)

Hello, Lady Julia.

Those are fun questions. I’d like to first respond to what you said before answering your questions from my perspective.

I have read stories of a wide variety of women using hypnotic control. It’s not always just some stunning woman. But then my attitude about women — “stunning” is usually far more about attitude that the sort of appearance you can see in a random photograph. But that’s just me.

Okay, to answer your questions…

I’m a skeptic. I don’t believe true mind control of any sort is possible. Well, with known methods, anyway — who knows what will happen in the future? If it were possible, wouldn’t the US government use it on terrorist suspects instead of engaging in controversial, lengthy interrogation techniques?

I do believe there are a variety of ways to make someone more likely to accept a suggestion. There are certainly a variety of tools one can use to convince another to do what one may wish. Hypnosis may be one of those tools. I find a smile can work wonders though, too.

Would I find it exciting to lose control to someone else? It would depend on what she were going to do. If I trusted her, then yes, it might be quite exciting, at least for a while.

As I’ve said a few times in the past, I’m certainly quite curious as to what is truly possible through hypnosis. There are so many mind control type stories out there — I suspect written by people who have never been hypnotized nor hypnotized someone else — that it’s impossible for me to tell fact from fantasy. Being the sort of person who is pretty much eternally curious, it would be interesting me to experience first hand an example of what hypnosis can do. As a skeptic, I presume the answer is something more than “nothing” but quite some distance from the total mind control you see in popular fiction.

As for temporary or permanent… Well, I don’t believe complete control is possible. Nor do I believe permanent hypnotic control is possible. However… I don’t believe that I would be interested in a woman who wanted a puppet.

There are days — stressful days perhaps, or depressing days, or just bad mood days — when it would be nice to just let go and ask someone else to take complete responsibility. “I just don’t want to make any more decisions today” sort of days. Or perhaps, “I just don’t want to be responsible for anything else today.”

One must also recognize that one of the underlying allures of the entire mind control fantasy is the thought of being wanted — that someone would want us that completely. Furthermore, many men especially develop a profound feeling that, “No decision I make is going to satisfy her” or “Nothing I do works” or “I don’t have any idea what women want.” These questions have become cliches. MC fantasies mean we don’t have to figure it out anymore.

So — short answers:

-Do I believe MC is possible? No, not really.

-Would it appeal? With someone I trusted, yes. Note: turnabout is fair play!

-Temporary or permanent? Temporary. Frequently, perhaps, but temporary each time.

FTW


December 14th, 2009  



Is Mind Control Really Possible?

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I’ve read quite a few fantasies stories over the past few years that feature a beautiful woman taking complete control of some poor unsuspecting man with nothing more than a few softly spoken words.  While I often smile and wonder why it’s never an average looking woman with a great personality (wink), the entire scenario does leave me with a few questions.

Do you believe mind control is possible?  If so, would this control lead the subject to do things against his will?

Does mind control appeal to you?  If so, would this be in fantasy only or would you find it exciting to completely lose control to another?

If someone were to hypnotize you and take complete control of your mind, would you want this control to be a permanent thing or does this only appeal for a short period of time?


December 14th, 2009  



Femdom Fantasies

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I am posting a new hypnosis related short story on Femdom Fantasies today, so be sure and take a peek :)

If you have any hypnosis related fantasies you’d like to share, please email me.  I’d love to read them!


December 14th, 2009  



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