I have decided to conduct one of my “experiences” in The Circle of Dreams.   You still have time to join and participate if you are interested.  (This experience is open only to members of that group, no exceptions, so joining is a requirement.)

To give you an idea of what will be transpiring, below are the instructions I’ve given the group:

Soon we’ll begin my next experience. I’m sure you’ve been thinking about it with increasing anticipation and wondering what will happen, when it will happen, and just how wonderful it will feel to be controlled by a dominant lady – just for a little while, of course ;)

Before we progress, I need to make certain you understand what will be required of you.  If you make a commitment to me to do this, you will:

1.  Purchase two ties (I prefer at least some red in the fabric, but that isn’t a necessity.  After all, red is my signature color, isn’t it? ;)   You will purchase them from a second hand shop or somewhere you can buy them very inexpensively.  You’re not going to be wearing them around your neck so cheap and tacky is fine ;)

It doesn’t matter if you have 100 ties you never wear, I want you to go shopping *for me*.  During the time you are searching for just the right ties, you will be thinking about my control and how good it feels to obey me.

I wonder if it will show on your face that you are being such a good obedient boy or girl..  Do you think the sales people will suspect?  Perhaps your flushed face will offer a hint.  Or.. perhaps your body will betray your secret?  ;)

2.  You’ll need two separate days during this time where you will have approximately 1 hour alone with no chance of someone walking in and observing you.  For example, Sunday I need one uninterrupted hour of your time and Monday I will need the same.  The days do not need to be consecutive, however.. you might wish they were.

3.  Unless I direct otherwise, you will not touch for pleasure from the moment you purchase the ties until I say you are finished.  This could be only a couple of days or it could be longer depending on your schedule.

4.  Unless I direct otherwise, you will not listen to any hypnosis MP3s, participate in any trances, etc from the moment you purchase the ties until I say you may.  The only exception to this would be listening to a hypnosis MP3 for some health-related reason (like insomnia, anxiety, etc.)

5.  You will post daily to tell me of your progress.  If you are shy then I will permit you to post simply, “I am obeying”, but I *really* want you to post about how you are feeling, how things are going with following my directions, etc.  It excites me to read your words and to think of my control over you.  I’m pretty certain if you look at it in that light, you’ll find posting easier.  After all – doesn’t the thought of exciting a really sexy woman completely turn you on?

If you agree to the above, then you will post indicating that you do.  Sometime soon I will be making one more post with a few more instructions and then the experience will officially begin.  I want to make certain to allow for questions before you proceed.

Remember, if you commit, you will follow instructions precisely or you will withdraw. If you don’t understand what I am wanting you may ask for clarification, but no carelessness.  If you withdraw, you must ask my permission to do so.

Finally, and most importantly, if you are in a relationship, this activity can in no way interfere with that relationship.  If your lady approaches you for sex, enjoy :)  Just do not initiate it yourself.  If you have a Mistress, you must ask her permission to participate.

Now.. what questions do you have? :)

Lady Julia

Controlling through hypnotic tease and denial is a tremendous turn-on.  Well, controlling in any fashion is a turn-on ;)

To use hypnosis to seduce and guide someone’s mind to a place of my choosing – that’s yummy.  True, it’s more erotic doing so one-on-one, but I find even the knowledge that I am teasing someone while they are listening to my MP3s to be quite delicious as well.  It’s especially nice when I think about lots of someones listening :)

I very much enjoy the tease and I think, modesty aside, that I am quite good at it.  Somehow I have a way of finding a man’s buttons and knowing precisely how to push them to elicit the response I want.  It’s quite often a challenge, which again is something I really like.  Something or someone who is easy – not very much fun.  I do have a bit of difficulty when it comes to teasing a group of you, especially those I haven’t every spoken with, but when I decided to put you to work teasing yourselves that seemed to work well ;)

Denial truly only interests me as something that amps up the fun of teasing or increases his desperation.  (Desperation that leads to pleading – mmmm.)

There’s nothing new in all this.  I’m just rambling, sharing some of the thoughts that have passed through my mind over the last couple of days.   Thanks for all the fun.  You were all great :)

I really appreciate the feedback from those of you participating in this experience as it allows me not only to understand you all a little better but to experience more of the situation as well.   Yes, I enjoy knowing you are all out there being obedient, but it’s not the same thing as hearing about it.

I have been thinking about the end of this hypnotic tease and denial experience and I suddenly realized the end of the second 24 hours would probably occur when many of you were at work. Instead of listening to R*d Silk and releasing at the end of the second 24 hour period, I would like for you to wait until you are alone at home or somewhere that is more conducive to your task :)

You do seem to be enjoying yourselves. I like knowing you are feeling my control envelope you during this time and that it excites you. I am curious – have my directions been easy to follow or have you struggled a bit to be obedient? Was it just a little bit embarrassing to touch while you were in public restrooms? I hope it wasn’t too uncomfortable. I don’t enjoy humiliating anyone but if you squirmed a little bit in a pleasurable way I am happy :)

I also wonder, has listening to R*d Silk felt a bit different this time since you were doing it at my direction? Has your overall experience with my directions been what you thought it would be?

I’m looking forward to hearing more from you ;)

I realize some of you might feel a little timid about participating in my experience because of the posting requirements. While the blog template states you must leave a name and email address on this blog in order to participate, you may identify yourself as “Anonymous 1″ and fill in a fake email address such as someone@somewhere.com. You will need to use a different anonymous name from others who have posted, simply to assist me in identifying which comments go together.

If you feel too shy to say much, you may leave simple comments such as, “I am obeying”. I understand how difficult it is for some to display their thoughts in public.

To those of you who wrote to me privately asking about this experience, I’d like for you to at least do the above.

I didn’t realize how much I missed doing these experiences until I began this one. Yes, I know it is exciting for those of you who are participating, but I want you to know it is very exciting for me as well.

During the night I woke a couple of times and each time I found my thoughts drifting to those of you who are being such good obedient boys for me. I imagined how your day would be today, how that feeling of being teased and denied would fill your mind many times, and how difficult you would might find it to hide your growing excitement, and how much you would want to release when listening to R*d Silk.

Perhaps that’s a bit wicked of me, but I really enjoy the thought of you squirming a bit when trying to hide how excited you are. I don’t enjoy humiliating anyone, but I do adore the thoughts of any pleasurable embarrassment you might feel.

It’s also wonderful to think of you lying or sitting there under my hypnotic control, desiring so much to release after 24 hours of being teased and denied. Will you release without touching or will you find you will endure another day of tease and denial? Perhaps you find both … stimulating.

I know I do ;)

Over the years I’ve conducted several “experiences” with the members of my Yahoo Group and the members of The Circle of Dreams. Essentially they were periods of time where I allowed my submissive friends to get a small taste of control at the hands of a slightly bossy mentor hypnodomme (that would be me) ;) Since I’ve just begun this blog, I thought I might christen it by doing a short hypnotic tease and denial event.

Here’s how it works:

My goal in doing this is to allow those without a Mistress the opportunity to experience just a tiny bit of control and hopefully provide an opportunity for a little growth. I’m not suggesting it’s even remotely the same thing as being a submissive to a Mistress, but it’s still a bit of fun and excitement.

Keep in mind, I’m not interested in taking anyone as a submissive. That sounds blunt I know, but sometimes when I’m less blunt about that people forget and I didn’t want to risk any hurt feelings or risk any damage to existing relationships.

If you participate in this activity and you are in a relationship, IT MUST NOT negatively effect your relationship. If you find in any way that it does, STOP. If you think it might, DON’T START. If you have a Mistress, ASK PERMISSION FIRST.

To participate you must agree to my terms:

I will take control (just for the time of this event) of your hypnosis experiences. (Control of this starts NOW as you read this post). I say when and if you listen to MP3s and which ones you listen to. You may not trance with anyone via voice or text unless this individual is your Domme/Mistress.

I will also take control of any masturbation activity during this time. (Control of this starts NOW as you read this post). If you’re married or in a relationship and your partner initiates sex, by all means go with it and have a great time ;)

You will post a progress report in the comment section every day. At a minimum, your post will include the fact that you are obeying my instructions and also that I’m the coolest Domme in the world (wink – just teasing on that last part).

You will finish what you begin unless you ask for and receive permission to do otherwise.

Those are the basics for all my experiences. The following are the requirements for this particular event:

If you have any questions, wait to begin until I can answer them. 

As always if you participate, you must remember that YOU are responsible for YOUR behavior.  If you cannot comply with my restrictions or if you have any reason to believe it would be unwise for you to do so, you may not participate.

~ Lady Julia

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Effective July 2, 2009 this experience has ended. Those who have already begun will continue until their tasks have been completed. If you missed participating, don’t despair – I will be doing another experience soon :)